Online couples counseling

Because every couple is a universe in itself

Go beyond the boundaries of your previous ideas of a love relationship with couples counseling and experience the clarity and deep knowledge of the subconscious

in relation to your very individual partnership.

Find out what connects you and how you can overcome the aspects that divide you.

When is couples counseling useful?

If things in a marriage or relationship aren't going the way both partners want, it may initially be just a vague feeling. It's often hard to grasp why the bond that initially seemed so indestructible suddenly breaks down, or why you get the impression that your partner no longer truly understands you.

But this is precisely where the insidious process of alienation begins if the couple hasn't learned to recognize these small signs and actively work towards a better relationship. Therefore, the question of when couples counseling is appropriate is very simple: ideally right at the beginning of a new relationship. After all, why would you want to wait until emotional wounds arise that are rarely easy to heal? Why would you want to do something for your love only after it's already wounded?

Identify causes, instead of treating symptoms

To get to the root cause of all kinds of relationship problems, I first use client-centered counseling, allowing you as a couple to find your own solutions without me directly dictating the path. I believe that every couple is their own little universe, and both can find new solutions together if they reflect on their hearts and no longer view the many thoughts, hurtful words, and emotions of the past as the basis for their decisions.

Every planet in this universe must be aligned and in harmony with itself. If one of the two planets has fallen out of balance, this can cause a shift in the relationship that one or both of them find stressful or even unbearable. Stresses such as the birth of a child, a job change or loss, the loss of a loved one and other major events can cause such a shift. If the couple is working well together, they can usually find their center again after a certain amount of time. However, if cracks have already appeared in the outer shell of one or both planets due to ongoing, minor problems in communication, mutual respect and stability in the relationship, then urgent attention is needed.

That's why I look at the causes within each partner themselves, not just at the communication level. The subconscious reveals a lot about the actual reasons, and so it's often not immediately obvious to the couple themselves, but very quickly understandable why something has changed. That's why, upon request, I am happy to offer hypnosis to explore the causes, also to encourage the emotional processing of previous injuries. This usually makes it easier for a couple to communicate with each other in a more loving way and to adopt a different inner attitude towards one another. It also helps to significantly shorten the duration of couples therapy and make it more effective. However, that doesn't mean you have to use it. It is possible to receive couples counseling without hypnosis. I have also accompanied several couples where only one partner opted for it.

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Advantages of online couples counseling

You can be on the other side of the world and still start improving your relationship right away.
I also offer appointments later in the evening so that the little ones can sleep next door while you get comfortable on the couch to talk to me.
You save time on travel and money on the babysitter.
You can start at any time with a much faster appointment scheduling
Nobody notices that you are doing couples therapy.
If one partner doesn't want to participate (yet), it's also possible to conduct couples counseling alone. This can, of course, also be done from another room.
I even offer hypnosis online, as I received additional training for this with Marisa Peer in London. This makes me one of the few RTT® therapists worldwide who specializes in the use of hypnosis for couples' problems in the online sector.